Membership

I help artists, entrepreneurs and visionaries release heavy (family) baggage, so they can create a life where they are doing what they love & have supportive personal and work/business relationships without sacrificing what really matters to them.

What do my members have in common?

+ They are unique individuals who stand out a bit from the crowd. Usually they are creative and somehow manage to live their life outside the norms of society.

– Downside to this is that they quite often feel like they don’t fit in and sometimes try to squeeze themselves in the boxes that are too small for them in their quest for belonging.

+ They are responsible (But hey, that doesn’t mean they don’t know how to have fun!). When they are facing the challenge, they ask What is my responsibility here? What can I do?

– They can be over responsible. They can take on the responsibilities that are not theirs in an attempt to help others or be accepted by them. Usually, one area of their life is suffering as a consequence of misguided attention.

+ They are solution focused and have a growth mindset. If they have a problem, they will find a solution, sooner or later. They will learn what they need to learn and develop the skills they need, to prevent the issue in the future. And they jump out of joy when they see their progress.

– They can feel overwhelmed by the long to-do, to-learn & to-master lists not knowing what is the best thing to do next. Sometimes they feel like they are constantly improving themselves and solving problems, instead of just enjoying the present moment.

+ They are willing to face the truth and to admit things that make them feel uncomfortable, as they know the truth sets you free. They can laugh at themselves.

– They sometimes wear their heart on the sleeve and trust people who do not have their best interest at heart.

+ They are aware they are part of a collective of (human) beings on this planet. They see themselves as a cell in a big body. They are willing to do what it takes to be as healthy and loving as possible towards themselves and others. They know that the whole body is less healthy if they don’t love themselves and take care of themselves. (But sometimes they need a reminder.)

– They can be sometimes to idealistic and feel disappointed when others don’t get their vision. They can feel rejected, isolated and confused, as they know they want the best for everyone.

Membership Pricing

Freeloader

This plan is for you if:
a) You are new to my blog and you want to scout terrain before making any serious commitment.
b) You are looking how to come through as cheap as you can. Maybe it is just a phase or maybe it is a lifestyle.

In any case, you are welcome to integrate whatever insights you get, do not underestimate the value of free.

What you get?

  • majority of blog posts
  • newsletter subscription (full blog posts delivered to your inbox, ads free)

Supporter

1€/month

When you see something valuable, you recognise it. You understand there are humans putting in the work behind almost everything you enjoy. You appreciate the effort I put in writing, researching, thinking, drawing, website editing and the guts it takes to do it. You just want to give a little something back in return for what you get.

What you get?

  • majority of blog posts
  • newsletter subscription (full blog posts delivered to your inbox, ads free)
  • whole website ads free as long as you are logged in
  • occasional surprises & discounts

Participant

5€/month

You have a growth mindset. You are able to learn something from everyone. You know where you want to go or at least where you don’t want to be. You are working through some issues on your own and you somehow feel like I understand you, even if you are just reading my content and we don’t really know each other. You get insights into your situations through reading about mine.

What you get?

  • special content where I go deeper into things and share more than I am willing to share with public -> I will share with you my experiences, stories challenges and wins as ACOA (and adults that grew up in other types of dysfunctional families), -> be honest about emotional and mental health and share whatever else will come to my mind that will seem to me important to share with people who are committed to living the life filled with Quality
  • all the blog posts, paid ones included
  • newsletter subscription (full blog posts delivered to your inbox, ads free) + notifications about the new Participant level content
  • whole website ads free as long as you are logged in
  • occasional surprises & discounts
  • The Mental Fog Remover (otherwise 32€) and all the future updates of its content (my personal real life examples)
  • at least one new EFT tapping script per month
  • access to the library of tapping scripts

What you have to sign?

Confidentiality agreement. I will share with you information about my life that I don’t share with everyone- There will be things that make me feel uncomfortable, yet it is important to talk about them for the purpose of healing.

Insider

10€/month

You are doing the deep work yourself. You are mindful about what you read and who you spend your time with. You are dedicated to living the life of quality. And you like having fun. You know that people on the internet are humans who feel, eat and shit. You feel like we are probably from the same soul family, even if you are not sure if you really believe in such things. You love life, even if you hate it sometimes. The word paradox calms you down, because it resonates with who you are.

What you get?

  • special content where I go deeper into things and share more than I am willing to share with public -> I will share with you my experiences, stories challenges and wins as ACOA (and adults that grew up in other types of dysfunctional families), -> be honest about emotional and mental health and share whatever else will come to my mind that will seem to me important to share with people who are committed to living the life filled with Quality
  • special content for Insiders, where I share with you things I only share with friends or sometimes not even with them (what I am currently processing, sharing my goals, current practices and occasionally journal entries – some unedited raw uncensored material, including some of my own shadow work)
  • all the blog posts, paid ones included
  • newsletter subscription (full blog posts delivered to your inbox, ads free) + notifications about the new Participant & Insider level content
  • whole website ads free as long as you are logged in
  • occasional surprises & discounts
  • The Mental Fog Remover (otherwise 32€) and all the future updates of its content (my personal real life examples)
  • at least one new EFT tapping script per month
  • access to the library of tapping scripts
  • ASK ANITA: page with questions from you and answers from me (either you asking for advice or just being curious on my perspective), I will also accept your post and tapping scripts requests
  • HOT BONUS: 1 intensive 1:1 COACHING SESSION per year; worth 120€ (available after 90 days from your sign up date and then a year from the first session)
  • if all of that sounds a lot, don’t worry, I am a slow writer so I won’t overwhelm you with content, you will have enough time to process your own shit&glory

What you have to sign?

Confidentiality agreement. I will share with you information about my life that I don’t share with everyone- There will be things that make me feel uncomfortable, yet it is important to talk about them for the purpose of healing.

Compare Memberships:

FreeloaderSupporterParticipantInsider
majority of blog posts
newsletter subscription (full blog posts delivered to your inbox, ads free)
whole website ads free as long as you are logged in
occasional surprises & discounts
all the blog posts, paid ones included
special content where I go deeper into things and share more than I am willing to share with public -> I will share with you my experiences, stories challenges and wins as ACOA (and adults that grew up in other types of dysfunctional families), -> be honest about emotional and mental health and share whatever else will come to my mind that will seem to me important to share with people who are committed to living the life filled with Quality
at least one new EFT tapping script per month
access to the library of tapping scripts
e-mail notifications about the new Participant/Insider level content
The Mental Fog Remover (otherwise 32€) and all the future updates of its content (my personal real life examples)
special content for Insiders, where I share with you things I only share with friends or sometimes not even with them (what I am currently processing, sharing my goals, current practices and occasionally journal entries – some unedited raw uncensored material, including some of my own shadow work)
ASK ANITA: page with questions from you and answers from me (either you asking for advice or just being curious on my perspective), I will also accept your post and tapping scripts requests
HOT BONUS: 1 intensive 1:1 COACHING SESSION per year; worth 120€ (available after 90 days from your sign up date and then a year from the first session)
Become FreeloaderBecome Supporter for 1€/monthSign the Confidentiality Agreement and become Participant for 5€/monthSign the Confidentiality Agreement and become Insider for 10€/month

And here is something free as well ?:

HIGH ON LIFE!

Free 10 Day Journaling Challenge

What’s challenging about it?

Well, I challenge you to do all the exercises and still feel shity about your life ??